Friday, April 18, 2014

Dear Baby Boy... 37 Weeks

Dear Baby Boy,


Yes, I'm pretty freaking excited. At 37 weeks you have officially reached full term, which means you've developed your most crucial functions. Of course you'll get even healthier and stronger over the next few weeks, so I'm trying not to get too impatient, but wheeeeeeeeeeee! I'm so thrilled!

Daddy and I were quite busy last weekend with lots of celebrations for our lovebird friends. But we were able to get some work done on the house on Sunday, which was very satisfying since I've been nesting like a bird on crack. We have a few more items getting delivered this week, and after that Daddy swears that he will never, ever put together another piece of furniture. I've been focusing on making sure all your tiny clothes are laundered and put away, packing my hospital bag, and putting decorative finishing touches on your nursery and a few other rooms in the house.

We're having the family over on Sunday for Easter and I'm really excited. After an entire year our house is finally starting to feel like a home, and once you're there to fill in the missing space I think everything will really be complete.

You are now the size of a winter melon (about 6.5 pounds and 20 inches long), and you'll continue to pack on about a half pound a week at this stage. Spending the next few weeks in the womb will allow your brain and lungs to mature just a bit more, and you're still practicing some skills like inhaling, exhaling, sucking, gripping and blinking. Many babies have a full head of hair at birth, and for some reason that's how I imagine you, with lots of thick, dark hair.

I'm sure it's getting a little crowded in there, and you're definitely not kicking as much... I'm feeling more stretching, rolling, wiggling and squirming movements now, and even occasional hiccups!

I mentioned earlier this week that I'm pretty much over being pregnant, but I'll hang in there a little longer for your sake. I still haven't felt any Braxton Hicks contractions or cramping, and you seem pretty content up high with your feet kicked into my ribs, so I don't get the sense that you're in a rush to join us out here. That's fine, we'll see you soon enough...

I got the results of my Group B strep culture and they were negative, which was a nice relief; just one more thing we don't have to worry about. Daddy and I aren't sleeping well at all with my frequent trips to the restroom all night, which I assume is meant to prepare us for sleepless nights with you in just a few short weeks. But I'm still trying to rest up as much as I can so I'll have some energy for you, my love!

We are anxiously waiting for you, sweet boy!

Love Always,


Thursday, April 17, 2014

Live & Learn -- Fat Feet Fixes

I actually think feet are super disgusting, so writing about them here is kind of a stretch, but I just had to share a couple things I've learned about during this pregnancy.
During the third trimester I've experienced a horrible amount of swelling, or Edema (if you want to get technical). It started as mild puffiness that forced me to take off my wedding rings and only wear my most comfy shoes. Since then, I've gone up two whole shoe sizes and had to buy new ones to avoid going barefoot (actually my preference), and my hands and feet hurt all the time (except for the portions that go completely numb).
It's pretty uncomfortable.
As you know I'm a pretty busy person, and since I work full time I don't have a lot of opportunities to just sit down and elevate my feet above my heart throughout the day (my doctor's recommended solution to help alleviate the discomfort). So by the end of the day, when I limp home and collapse into bed, my feet look something like this...
Sickening, just sickening.
I can barely even look at those fat piggies.
And Stew has taken to calling me his little Hobbit.
Since my doctor can't prescribe me anything to help water retention during pregnancy, I decided to explore some nontraditional remedies (with her blessing).
First up was trying some alternative medicine.
I made an appointment with a local acupuncturist who was recommended by my yoga instructor. For over 3,000 years people from all walks of life have enjoyed the many benefits of Chinese medicine. Acupuncture is a time-tested form of health care based on a medical theory that defines good health as a balance of systems and circulation in the individual. It can reestablish balance by improving the flow of energy and blood, by enhancing circulation to systems that are depleted or by directing it away from areas of excess.
The doctor examined my feet and hands, took my pulse, looked at my tongue (I promise I couldn't make this up), and concluded that I am suffering from "dampness." As treatment, she intended to target my kidney function and fluid metabolism through four acupuncture treatments, along with having me avoid foods that exacerbate "dampness."
So far I've been to two appointments and haven't really noticed any results, but that hour long, extremely relaxing appointment has to do some good by helping my stress level, if nothing else.
Next came some real hippie stuff.
My yoga instructor also recommended using cabbage leaves to help with swelling. Apparently cabbage has quite a few medicinal qualities. Uncooked cabbage is high in glutamine, an amino acid that is essential for intestinal health. It has also been proven to be both antibacterial and antiviral. The Egyptians ate cabbage with vinegar before a night of drinking to prevent hangovers, and cabbage is still today considered one of the best remedies to cure hangovers! I'll have to try that after Baby Boy is born... Cabbage leaf compresses are often suggested by herbalists to reduce swelling, and I figured it couldn't hurt to try!
Rinse and dry common green cabbage leaves. Right before applying, puncture the veins of the cabbage leaves with a fork to break them open. Apply the cabbage leaves directly onto the swollen area, making sure to cover all inflamed or engorged tissue. Wrap lightly with a towel to keep the leaves in place. In 45 minutes to an hour, when the cabbage leaves wilt, remove the leaves and reapply fresh ones as needed.

Reduction in swelling.

Okay, okay, I'll admit it... the cabbage didn't really seem to reduce any swelling. But even if you don't really see results, the cool cabbage on my elevated feet did feel nice, and it forced me to sit and relax for almost an hour, something I rarely do...
Your husband laughing at you, and calling you a hippie.
Whatev. I'm in so much pain at this point I'm willing to try anything. Stew keeps saying that I brought this on myself, but I seem to remember there being two of us involved in creating this baby... Perhaps I deserve a little more sympathy.

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Wednesday, April 16, 2014

I Confess... I'm Over It

You might think that I'm the picture of a happy, glowing, pregnant woman, but it's all smoke and mirrors. Last night I was up almost every hour with heartburn, congestion, hip pain, hot flashes, and the urge to just save myself the trip and pee in our bed.
Although it seems like an eternity, I only have about three weeks to go. So let's look on the bright side and review the reasons why I cannot wait to get this baby out of my body...
I haven't been able to breathe properly in nine months: Pregnancy gives a whole new meaning to the word congestion. And even though I've never done so in my entire life, I now snore like a drunken sailor, which I find extremely embarrassing.
I can't remember what my vagina looks like, I can't go more than an hour without rushing to the closest bathroom, and even then I still feel like I have to pee almost constantly. And since I can't see past my belly any more, every week when I go to the doctor and have to leave a urine sample I end up peeing all over my hand. Yuck.
I'm sick of feeling guilty about every medication that I put into my body, even if it's only the occasional Tylenol for an excruciating headache or Tums for unbearable heartburn. I just want to be able to feel better without worrying that I'll cause my child to grow a tail.
I want my energy and mobility back. My appearance and the fact that I've gained 30 pounds doesn't bother me so much, but I hate that walking just a few blocks causes panting, a cramp in my side, and aching feet. I dream of exercising, something that I generally loathe...
I miss my regular clothes, especially my shoes. In the beginning I thought I put together a pretty cute maternity wardrobe; now I want to light it on fire. Sometimes I sit in my closet and stare dreamily at my size six stilettos before resentfully shoving my swollen feet into size eight orthopedic flats.  
My boobs are way too big. I never thought I would say it, but these things are getting downright pornographic. I really took for granted those years in my early twenties when I would wear pasties at the beach. Because these huge knockers that rest on my giant belly and are too painful for my husband to touch are not any fun at all.
All my extra time is taken up by sleep. I'm a very busy person, and I have things to do. Work full time, read, blog, work out, organize, socialize. Meetings, errands, events; I could do it all in a single evening. But now my energy is zapped to the point where sleep consumes me in a matter of minutes if I dare to slow down, rest, or god forbid shut my eyes for just a moment. And I think we have about 10 weeks of our favorite television shows backed up on our DVR because I have to watch them in ten minute intervals.
I could use a drink. Or five. And I'm so desperate for a sushi roll that I dream about them...
But most importantly, I cannot wait to meet our son. I'm dying to see what he looks like. I feel like he's going to be chubby with lots of dark hair, but one never knows... I might be carrying a ginger devil child! Anything is possible...
So those are my Humpday Confessions: I'm over being pregnant and I don't care who knows it.
The countdown is on...
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Monday, April 14, 2014

Love is in the Air

I spent the absolutely gorgeous Seattle weekend (hello, sun, how I've missed you!) celebrating some of my very favorite people at a couple of absolutely lovely showers.
First up was an afternoon at the Seattle Yacht Club for Haley's nautical-themed event.
Then later that evening Stew and I headed up to Edmonds for a couples shower in honor of Alissa and Matt.
I just love attending wedding showers. They are so filled with joy and anticipation and excitement. And so many of our dearest friends are tying the knot this year! We have five weddings to attend between now and the fall, believe it or not. Stew and I are actually both in the wedding party for Alissa and Matt's big day, but since it's scheduled just five days before Baby Marshawn is due to arrive, we're still not quite sure how that one will work out... Try to cooperate, Baby Boy!
The rest of our weekend was fairly low-key... putting together some furniture, running errands, placing orders, getting organized. Nesting away!
How was your weekend?
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Friday, April 11, 2014

Dear Baby Boy... 36 Weeks

Dear Baby Boy,

Just four weeks left, my little man!

Can you believe how fast the time is flying by now? It seems like just yesterday you were the size a lentil, and now you're basically a fully formed human being!

Things have remained crazy busy for us, but we can see the end in sight! All of the furniture for your nursery has arrived and been put together, and we finished our last child birth class earlier this week. I now feel confident that I could perform CPR on your tiny body, or save you from choking if necessary. Hopefully we won't be faced with any of those scenarios, but don't worry; you're in good hands if it happens!

Daddy and I are both in nesting mode, working on getting lots of house projects done before you get here. That way when we bring you home we'll only have YOU to worry about! Daddy has been working hard on getting the yard in order, and I imagine we'll spend lots of time out there with him this summer. It's going to be so strange for me to have the entire summer off work... But I'm sure we'll find many ways to occupy ourselves! I have big plans to take you for miles and miles of walks, because Momma's got to take care of this baby weight!

This week you are the size of a head of romaine lettuce (about six pounds and 20 inches long). Your skin is getting smooth and soft, your gums are rigid, your liver and kidneys are in working order, and your circulation and immune system are basically good to go. You would be able to breathe on your own if you were born right now. You're shedding most of the downy covering of hair that covered your body, as well as the vernix caseosa, the waxy substance that's covered and protected your skin during your nine-month amniotic bath. Unfortunately I've learned that you swallow both of these substances, along with other secretions that result in a blackish mixture called meconium that will form the contents of your first bowel movement... yuck!

Now that you're taking up so much room, I'm having quite a bit of difficulty with simple things like walking, eating, sleeping, and even just sitting for long periods of time. It will be amazing when you start to drop down into my pelvis and the heartburn lightens up a bit. This usually happens a few weeks before labor and I'm definitely looking forward to it!

I haven't had (or at least noticed) any Braxton Hicks contractions, but my doctor said that not everyone gets them. I'm slightly concerned that I'm going to go into labor and not even realize it, thinking I have indigestion or something. Hopefully my water will break as a tell tale sign... I really don't want to end up having you on a Metro bus.

By the end of this week you will be considered "early term" which means if you decide you're ready the doctor will let labor progress naturally. You've been head down for quite a few weeks now, and the doctor suspects that you are a pretty decent sized child, so I'm curious if you will decide to have an early birth day. Just make sure you're fully cooked before you join us, okay?

See you soon, my darling!

Love Always,


Thursday, April 10, 2014

Live & Learn -- Sometimes the government doesn't suck

Ugh, dreaded Tax Day is almost upon us.
Of course our Type A personalities forced us to file weeks ago, but I still thought the experience was worth sharing. We had prepared ourselves for an absolute nightmare...
Last year we decided, for the first time, to hire an accountant to file our taxes for us, since we had some complicated items like filing jointly for the first time and the sale of a home that Stew and his brothers inherited. This stuff seemed a little too complicated for Turbo Tax to handle, and we didn't want to make a mistake, so we found someone local who helped us file for a small fee.
Last year sucked.
For the first time ever we had to pay, even though for our entire working lives we were both used to getting pretty decent returns. Enough to pay for a vacation or something at least. But last year we had to pay thousands of dollars in back taxes to the IRS due to the sale of the inherited house... something about landlord taxes since it had been a rental for the prior ten years or something. That hurt.
Then our accountant warned us that due to changes by the Obama Administration, we should be prepared to pay that much or more this year as well.
Oh and the kicker... When we bought our condo in 2008, we took a government New-Home Buyer Credit of $7,500 which had to be repaid in equal payments over 15 years. Don't even get me started about the fact that a few months later new homebuyers received the same credit, but were not expected to pay it back. The point is that since we sold our condo, we were expected to pay back the entire credit on our next tax return. So that meant an additional $6,000 added to any other taxes we would owe this year.
But resigning ourselves to what was inevitably coming, for the past year we saved and saved to make sure we could pay all our taxes without going into debt. But in the meantime, Stew did some research...
And this is where I found out that sometimes the government doesn't suck.
Apparently there is a loophole... since we sold our condo at a loss, we were not required to pay back the credit after all! And on top of that, Uncle Sam decided to throw us an additional few thousand dollars back as well!
We still have no idea what that accountant was talking about, but needless to say we didn't use him again, and went back to filing on our own via Turbo Tax. It was a bit of a long, complicated process, but Stew is a smart cookie and he figured it all out. And my only responsibility in the whole thing is to decide how we want to spend all that extra cash!
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Tuesday, April 8, 2014

Sh*t Men Say v4

Since I was in college I've spent almost every Memorial Day and Labor Day weekend at my friend Evan's cabin in Sunland, on the Columbia River Gorge in Eastern Washington. Basically, we head out on Friday for three days of drunken debauchery with all of our friends. Boating, beers, sunbathing, wake boarding, volleyball, theme nights, card games... Oh, I couldn't even begin to list all the silly activities we've done to keep ourselves occupied over there. Plus my brain cells are deadened from too many weekends drinking in the sun.

Anyway, quite a few years back I had the genius idea to start a Quote Book, so we could catalog all the ridiculous and hilarious things that were said on these amazing Sunland weekends. And I thought this week's link up with Amanda and Danae would be the perfect opportunity to bust it out.

So, without further ado, here are some of my favorite quotes from my favorite guys...

Rockin' it with pride, my friends!

Sunland = Funland, every single time.
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Voyage of the Mee Mee

Monday, April 7, 2014

Maybe we never should have gotten engaged...

Okay, I don't really mean that. OF COURSE I'm so happy that Stewart proposed and that I am spending my life married to my very best friend. But we were having a discussion over the weekend that really made me think...
Stew and I have been under a tremendous amount of pressure and stress for what seems like the longest time. We're so busy and over scheduled that sometimes it seems like we can't even enjoy the fun things, because everything is just something else to check off one giant checklist that consumes our lives. I found myself wondering when all this started...
Because when we first met, all we did was play, all the time.
Booze cruises, beer fests, Seafair, camping trips, Sunland shenanigans, fairs, Oktoberfests, birthdays, ski trips, concerts, weekends in Las Vegas, adult proms, festivals, holiday beach trips... my blog is virtual vault of all the fun, carefree times we used to have. And even in the midst of all that, Stew managed to get hired as a firefighter, go through the fire academy, graduate and begin his new career. Oh, and I finished a nine month night program at UW and became a certified paralegal. We also bought a condo and moved in together, but even that didn't seem to turn us into adults slow us down.
When the heck did life start being more work, and less fun?
It all started with that diamond ring on the coast of Italy, if you ask me...
Following our whirlwind tour of Europe, we started planning a huge, elaborate, St. Patrick's Day wedding. That was about a year of some of the most stressful and time consuming planning I've ever been a part of. We took a little time to relax after our amazing honeymoon, but shortly thereafter decided that it was time to move to the suburbs. This meant another year or so of house searching and purchasing, combined with simultaneously selling our condoWhat a process... Then there was planning and executing The Big Move, followed by months of settling into our new home.
And y'all know what happened next...
I mean, I was living in a perfect house in suburbia with the perfect husband; it was inevitable that I got knocked up. And as I'm sure my regular readers can confirm, our focus has shifted to baby baby baby ever since.
I promise, I'm not complaining...
Just pondering, really.
I couldn't be happier with our lives and our choices, but sometimes I do miss those carefree days when weekends consisted of choosing which lake to take the boat out on, and which bar to party at afterwards. When eating Dick's at midnight was the norm, and a hangover cure consisted of a greasy breakfast and an Advil, instead of two days in bed.
I know seasons change, and so do people. We haven't changed who we ultimately are, but life is just different these days. And we've crossed some major milestones over the past couple years, all in a row... It was bound to be stressful.
But I'll admit, I'm looking forward to the future... one in which we're completely settled into our house (and we never, ever have to buy or build another piece of furniture ever again) with our little Baby Boy in our arms. We'll get to spend the entire summer together, enjoying one another, our home, and hopefully some sunshine. I know there are stressful times ahead (mostly involving a crying infant), but somehow I feel that things are about to take a turn for the better, and I'm so excited...
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Saturday, April 5, 2014

Dress Up Your Cup Giveaway

Today I have the pleasure of joining up with my bloggy friend Kari for an awesome giveaway!
Kari is one of the sweetest girls you'll ever meet. For example, this year she treated Valentine's Day as "Share Some Love Day," and went out into the world armed with handmade coffee sleeves that she gave out to random people she came into contact with throughout the day. Everyone was shocked and pleasantly surprised, and Kari's thoughtfulness and selflessness has really stuck with me ever since I read about how she shared love that day. What a sweetheart.
This week Kari is offering a $20 Dress Up Your Cup Giveaway for one of her adorable handmade coffee sleeves. But don't worry, if you don't win and still want one of her stylish creations to dress up your coffee cup, you can buy yourself (or a friend!) one from her Etsy site.

Good luck!
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Happy Giveaway Day!!  I'm so excited to announce a very special giveaway that I have the honor of doing with a group of wonderful bloggers!  Below you have several chances to enter for the opportunity to win a $20 shopping spree from Dress Up Your Cup and a $30 gift card to Starbucks compliments of the lovely ladies listed below!  The giveaway starts today and will run for a week.  A winner will be chosen at random via Rafflecopter and will be notified by email.

This giveaway is brought to you by these lovely ladies:


And the winner is... Brittany Hellmich Fortman!

Friday, April 4, 2014

Dear Baby Boy... 35 Weeks

Dear Baby Boy,

Well, it's a big week, because we can finally say that we'll get to meet you NEXT MONTH!

We've had a busy week with lots of appointments, but luckily I was able to get some rest over the weekend while Daddy was in Las Vegas. I'm glad that is the last time he'll be far away from us before you are born. Each day I get more and more apprehensive about all the things I need to get done before your arrival, and I'm terrified you'll decide to make your debut prior to your due date and I won't be ready. But like the doctor said, as long as we have diapers, wipes, a place for you to sleep, and a car seat to take you home in, everything else can be dealt with later.

That being said, you should know that your mother is an obsessive planner and a control freak, so this entire experience has been completely new for me. I don't like unknowns and you, my darling, are just that. It's fun though, constantly imagining what you will be like. Who will you look like... what will your voice sound like... what color will your eyes and hair be? It's so fun to imagine...

This week you are the size of a honeydew melon (about 5.5 pounds and 20 inches tall). You won't get much longer, but you'll put on a pound or more of baby fat before birth. Your hearing is totally developed and you respond best to high-pitched noises. I think you like music, because you always start kicking when I'm in the car and am rocking out to the radio. Most of your basic physical development is now complete, and you'll spent the next few weeks just putting on weight. You don't have much room to maneuver anymore so no more somersaults, but you're kicking at about the same rate. I notice your patterns of waking and sleeping, and your new favorite thing seems to be jamming your feet up into my right ribs. Thanks...

My uterus has grown about 1,000 times its original size, but to me it feels more like a million. I've already gained 32 pounds, and I can expect to gain about another half pound a week until you are born, which I can't even fathom. Dragging around all this extra weight is exhausting, and even turning over in bed has become a huge chore. But I'll suffer through it all for you, little buttercup.

My ballooning uterus (which now reaches up under my rib cage) is crowding my internal organs, which has become quite uncomfortable. I'm suffering from heartburn and other gastrointestinal distresses, and of course needing to pee about eighty bazillion times a day and night.

Daddy calls me his little Hobbit now because my feet and ankles are so swollen all the time. I talked to the doctor about it (we see her every week now) but she says my blood pressure is fine and swelling is a natural side effect of the third trimester. However, I've also started seeing an acupuncturist once a week, and she is targeting my kidney function and fluid metabolism to see if we can't get things a bit more under control. I haven't seen any obvious results yet, but I'm willing to keep trying!

I took a "Coping With Confidence" labor prep class last night with Aunt E while Daddy was at work. It was fun for us to do something together, and now I feel even more confident about your upcoming birth day. Try not to hurt me too much though, okay? This weekend Daddy and I plan to conquer a massive to-do list, and maybe spend some quality down time together as well.

Just a few more weeks to go, my precious!

Love Always,


Thursday, April 3, 2014

Live & Learn -- Diaper Pails

I apologize, but today's Live & Learn lesson isn't going to be very entertaining to those of you who aren't new parents. But I gotta be real about my new lifestyle, and the activities and decisions that now consume my days.

A little while back Stew and I were at Babies R Us trying to choose a diaper pail. Yes, our weekends used to consist of ski trips and drunken shenanigans. Now they include shopping for poop receptacles. WHO ARE WE??

Anyhow, I thought I might as well share what we learned.

We were given the Arm & Hammer Diaper Pail as a shower gift, but since it wasn't what I remembered registering for, I decided to take it in and possibly exchange it. I knew we didn't want a Diaper Genie because I had heard the custom bag refills were expensive, so we crossed that one off the list right away. Stew and I played with the rest of the diaper pails for a while and ultimately decided that we liked the Diaper Dekor, because it seemed easy to use and the refill bags weren't that expensive. We took it to the baby customer service section for some advice to validate our decision.

Every once in a while I encounter a really awesome, honest sales person, and this happened to be one of those days. The two women at the counter looked around conspiratorially and then proceeded to tell us that not only was the Safety 1st Easy Saver Diaper Pail the least expensive one out there, but it is also the best. It takes regular trash bags so you don't have to buy or specialty order them. They also admitted that the bags for the Diaper Dekor often go out of stock and don't come back for weeks... not a good situation when you're going through 10-14 diapers a day.

Ironically, the Safety 1st was the original diaper pail I had registered for, at the recommendation of a friend. It wasn't in stock at the store that day, so I ordered it online and it came in just a couple days. So now we're all set in the dirty diaper department.

That being said, I've also heard great things about the Baby Trend Diaper Champ, which also takes regular diaper bags and is pretty affordable.

Here is the most important lesson we learned that day:

Don't rely on price points or advertisements when shopping for a diaper pail. Personal recommendations are the way to go, and the most expensive option isn't always the best one.
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Tuesday, April 1, 2014

My Weekend Postpartum Shopping Haul

Well hello there, and welcome to the first day of April!
I apologize to anyone who was sucked in by my April Fools Day birth announcement on Facebook... but come on guys, did you really think I'd actually name my son Marshawn? You'll find out soon enough...

It's official, we can start saying that Baby Boy will be here NEXT MONTH!
I've been obsessing quite consistently about Baby Boy's upcoming birth lately. And I realized that I've been so focused on getting everything ready for him that I forgot I'll need some things for myself as well. Luckily my very dear mommy friends have been extremely helpful in sharing their postpartum knowledge with me, so I've been developing quite an extensive list of things that I'll need after he's born. And this past weekend Cailin was kind enough to spend the day with me shopping for some of the necessities. 

As you can see, we mainly focused on clothing. At Destination Maternity I picked up a seamless clip down nursing bra, two V-neck pull down nursing tanks, and three sleeveless clip down double opening nursing camisoles. Then at Macy's I picked up a super cute, soft, comfy robe (because I don't plan on wearing that nasty, stiff gown they give you in the hospital), as well as two more nursing bras and two nursing night gowns that should be prefect for summer.

With all that stuff, my ta-tas should be readily available so I can be Baby Boy's personal milk factory.

So now I'm feeling pretty good about hospital and lounge wear for those first few weeks, but there are definitely some other items I still need to check off my list. Most of them I won't share with you here because my poor husband reads this and he doesn't need to hear about granny panties, sanitary and breast pads, nipple cream, laxatives, and Preparation H (sorry babe)

But what I wasn't able to find over the weekend was slippers. I need some nice, soft, comfy ones that I'll be able to fit my hobbit feet into, but apparently Macy's doesn't carry them and we were running short on time. I hear Costco and Sears are good places to look though...

Other than that I spent my weekend seeing friends, relaxing and nesting. Stew was in Vegas for Matt's bachelor party, and it sounds like they had a blast. They only took about 2.5 photos so I don't have much to show you... Typical boys. Unless they just deleted the evidence prior to getting home (more likely).

He did send me one photo early on of the Lamborghini he drove, though. Pretty cool.

Anyway, please let me know if you have any postpartum favorites that you think I should check out!

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Friday, March 28, 2014

Dear Baby Boy... 34 Weeks

Dear Baby Boy,

Oh my goodness darling, just six weeks left until your official due date, can you believe it?! It seems like just yesterday I was writing that little note to you on my way home from work. It was the first of my "Dear Baby" letters and I'm so glad that I decided to continue with them! I just hope that one day you'll get a kick out of looking back on this journey.

You and I spent last weekend in Leavenworth for Alissa's bachelorette party, which was fun but awfully tiring. This weekend Daddy is on his way to Las Vegas for the bachelor party with Matt, and I warned him not to spend all your college tuition on drugs and hookers (in which case you'll end up getting raised by a single mother). I'm pretty jealous that he's going to get some sun this weekend... the weather has been so drab and dreary lately. But I'm hanging in there, with the bright star of your arrival peeking at me from the horizon.

This week you are the size of a cantaloupe (clocking in at five pounds and as tall as 20 inches) and your fat layers are really filling out, making you rounder and more pinch-able. Your central nervous system and lungs are continuing to mature, and the vernix (white coating protecting your skin) is getting thicker. Your tiny fingernails have reached the tips of your fingers, getting ready for that first manicure. I promise not to use polish. Oh, and your testicles descend this week!

You listen to our conversations now, and from what I've read you enjoy music and lullabies. You'll learn soon enough that your mother is completely tone deaf, which is why I don't sing to you, but daddy plays you music from his iPod almost every night, and occasionally we get to listen to him practice on his guitar. Do you like that as much as I do?

A lot of people I know have had their babies several weeks early lately, and it's made me extremely nervous about preterm labor. However, I read today that babies born between 34 and 37 weeks who have no other health problems generally do fine, so that made me feel better. However, go ahead and stay put for a few more weeks just to stay on the safe side, okay?

I've definitely hit that part of the third trimester where I'm pretty much over being pregnant, even though we still have a lot to accomplish before you're born. My fatigue levels are at an all-time high, and I'm experiencing almost comical swelling in my hands, feet and ankles. Daddy has taken to calling me a Hobbit. I limp because my feet are so swollen and painful, and this week I started acupuncture to try and help things. My acupuncturist is focusing on increasing my kidney function so I won't retain so much fluid... I hope I see results soon!

I know I need to slow down and save my energy for labor day, but it's hard with a lot of things going on at work and other obligations pulling me in lots of different directions. However, Daddy and I finished up our six week Childbirth Preparation Series of classes last week, so that at least frees up one night a week for us. I'm sure we'll find ways to fill the time...

This weekend while Daddy is out of town I plan on resting and doing lots of nesting activities, which I'm really looking forward to. Maybe we'll even get a hot fudge sundae as a treat (don't tell!)

Love Always,